I happened upon this book by coincidence. (fort the record, I don't believe in coincidences) I have read a ton of books on ADC's, NDE's, OBE's, and the like. I find the subject fascinating. So, when I came across 'We Need to Talk' I thought, what the heck. Sounds like a good book, right up my reading alley.Well, little did I know that I would LOVE this book! It captured my attention in the beginning because it read like a fiction book, and I was intrigued! Most of the books I've read are more on a scientific, and fact based approach. This book was more....softer if you will, very refreshing. The book is well written and down to earth. The loss we all have either had or will have at some point in our lives is devastating...this book helps to really and truly understand where we go and how we really never do go 'anywhere'.I highly recommend this book BEFORE you lose someone you love. It will help anyone and everyone who needs to heal and understand. The author went through her loss and devastation so she could share with us what she learned from her loss, that there is no ending to life and love.